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Love is like sunshine on a rainy day–it’s warm and welcome.

Love is like medicine for the heart,

Love makes you smile when everything else in your life doesn’t;

Love makes you see through rose colored glasses;

Love causes you to laugh out loud at the simplest things,

Love sometimes flows fast and furiously, other times as a placid lake;

Love gives life to the marrow of your bones;

Love inspires and motivates;

Love fills your head with happy thoughts, your heart with song, and your feet with dance;

Love fills your soul with peace;

Love is…whatever you want it to be.

 

Today is the oldest you’ve ever been,

Yet the youngest you’ll ever be,

so, enjoy this day while it lasts.

source: biblecommentary

Valentine’s Day is a day of love.  It’s a reminder to do something nice for the one that you love. It’s a reminder to get off the fast train of life, and spend some time appreciating and celebrating your love.

Valentine’s Day got me thinking about love–perfect love.   What does a perfect love relationship look like?  What is perfect love?  Here’s my reflection:  Perfect love is faithful, forgiving, tender, respectful, merciful, kind, truthful, loyal, compassionate, long-suffering, patient, generous, supportive, uplifting and encouraging.

Perfect love protects, provides, defends and believes in the other.  Perfect love is trustworthy, helpful, best friends, romantic, thoughtful, affectionate, and does what is best for the other.

Perfect love listens with the heart, and gives freely without thought of return. Perfect love doesn’t keep score. Perfect love is passionate about the other; feels their pain and celebrates their successes.

Perfect love is safe.  It’s where you can let go of your guard because no matter what, your back is covered.

I’ve discovered that the only way we can love like that, is when we allow God’s love to flow through us, because He is the source.  Let your love shine.   Happy Valentine’s Day.

 

The American Cancer Society reports that in 2010 there were an estimated 207,060 new cases of breast cancer diagnosed in females, and of those, 39,840 died.  In 2012 there were 226,870 new cases of breast cancer and an estimated 39,510 women will die from the disease.  While there is a slight decrease in the number of deaths, breast cancer is on the rise. It should be noted that these numbers only include women; male breast cancers have also been diagnosed. Likewise, there were 12,200 uterine cancers diagnosed and 4,210 deaths reported in 2010; while 2012 is expected to see 12,170 uterine cancer diagnoses and 4,220 deaths. The death-rate from ovarian cancer is even higher at 15,500 that are expected in 2012.

Why does it matter? It matters because people suffer needlessly. Cancer treatments are expensive, tremendously emotional and frightening.   The need for treatment could possibly be prevented if people knew how to protect themselves between detection appointments. Almost everyone either has had, or knows someone who has received a cancer diagnosis.  No one wants to go through that.

Why do I care?  I care because I know what it feels like to hear “you have cancer.”  And, I’ve stood at my father’s bedside as he was dying of lung cancer. I watched my mother’s heartbreak as she suffered years after her mastectomy with lymphedema and low self-esteem. I’ve worked in the hospital providing patient care, and have watched the agony, fear, pain and devastation that can entangle people.

I write about cancer  to educate, because I believe that knowledge is power.  I believe that if people knew what to do to avoid all the heartache involved with a cancer diagnosis, most would take proactive steps.  I write to you, my reader, as if I were speaking to family members, because I believe that we are all connected, after all.  I write because I care passionately.    I write to give hope and encouragement.   I am not a doctor.  I do not claim cures.  I simply share from experience what I have learned or what I have read.  I speak for those who cannot speak.  I write for those who don’t know what to do, but want to do something.  I write for you.  Therefore, please bear with me if  cancer topics do not interest you–they interest some of my readers, and if what I write can help even one person, then I will have accomplished my purpose.  If my articles do not personally address your needs, perhaps you know someone with whom you can share my articles, someone who would benefit from the information.  If you have a particular interest that you’d like me address, let me know, I’ll do what I can.   I heard Dr. Oz say that we probably all have cancer cells in our bodies at this very moment, but there are things we can do to build immunity.  Do whatever you can to stay healthy, won’t you?

Status Update
By Gynecology – Mayo Clinic
Endometrial cancer news:

Endometrial cancer is the fourth most common cancer in women. It is considered a disease of postmenopausal women. However, about 25% of patients affected by the cancer will be under the age of 50 yrs old. There is even now some cases seen in teenagers. This is probably related to the epidemic of obesity. Hysterectomy is the usual treatment but there are reports of progestin-releasing intrauterine device (IUD) used in young women to treat the disease. Read more about this encouraging treatment option in:

“Progestin Intrauterine Device in an Adolescent With Grade 2 Endometrial Cancer”
By Alaina J. Brown et al in Obstetrics and Gynecology vol. 119, No 2, Part 2, February 2012

Source: MayoClinic
In layman’s terms, obesity is a factor in endometrial and breast cancer because fat cells produce estrogen. These cancers are estrogen driven which means that too much estrogen in the body creates an imbalance.  Estrogen stimulates tissue growth. Progesterone counteracts estrogen, and protects uterine and breast tissue.  See more at: Cornell University
What can you do?  Most nutritionists recommend changing your dietary habits.   Move toward a low-fat diet; increase fruits and vegetables and add a vitamin D supplement for added protection, as fat burns up vitamin D in your body leaving you with a possible vitamin D deficiency.  See more recommendations at Cornell .

I have learned over the years to listen more to my gut instincts, perceptions and intuition — I call God talk.  I’m not always good at it, but sometimes you know that you know, without a doubt.  That was the case with the internship I accepted at Bitch Flicks.  I experienced that inner voice telling me that my conservative, soft-spoken, altruistic lifestyle did not mix with their radical feminist viewpoints and was therefore, not right for me.  I tried to push it aside and commit to it since I had agreed to do it; however, no matter how much time I put into it or how hard I tried, the unrelenting feelings I had that this commitment was not right for me not even for a time, continued.  I felt I would have to give up parts of me to write for them.  I could not do it and therefore withdrew my acceptance of their internship.   I believe we sometimes have to make hard decisions, and we are called to be true to our inner voice, gut feelings and intuition–and listen to God talk.

Be encouraged that whatever the decision is that you need to make this day–that you know what to do–just listen.  It’s a much happier and peaceful place.

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click here:  WebMD

Summary

Research into cancer vaccines has waxed and waned over the years, advancing more slowly than other types of immunotherapy research. Novel approaches are clearly needed. And that’s just what Mayo Clinic investigator Richard G. Vile, Ph.D., is bringing to the table, with ideas that are described as incredibly creative, original and even eccentric. The result is a cancer assassin — a precisely engineered vector that can slip into liver tumors undetected and deliver its genetic payload with minimal harm to the patient.

See more: Mayo Clinic, Scottsdale

This picture speaks to me. It says, loving unconditionally means we can choose to accept our differences and still be there for each other; sometimes love and support comes from unexpected places.

Source: CalmingYourInnerStorm

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